Monthly Archives: October 2015

5 October 2015

I’m slipping…it’s been a whole month. Let’s start at the end…general conference.  I think when you are on a mission, general conference takes on new significance. We were able to watch all sessions live on BYUtv.  We could also get it on lds.org, but is was not streaming very smoothly.  If I had to pick a favorite, it might go to Elder Greg Schwitzer.  I don’t think it is because he is Harvey Schwitzer’s son; but his message of boldly declaring our conviction of Christ was very moving to me.  Sunday evening the sisters from across the hall came over.  The new sister has only been serving here for a couple of weeks.  I inquired about her family and learned that she is a rather recent convert–the only member in her family.  She is from Massachusetts.  As I listened to her conversion story, I learned that she had the missionary lessons while in her first year at Columbia University (and I loved that I had to drag that part out of her).  I asked her if, after hearing the first vision story, she ran to the Internet to find “the rest of the story.”  She did; but she explained that she was able to differentiate truth from fiction by how it made her feel.  When she heard the missionary lessons she felt happiness and when she read from detractors, she felt darkness and unhappiness.  I asked how she developed the ability to be that discerning and she said a friend helped her by encouraging her to be aware of her feelings as she investigated the gospel.  I was very touched by this obviously intelligent young woman who did not avoid intellectual inquiry, but was able to be in touch with, and trusting of, her spirit.  And impressed by her friend who gave such valuable advice.

A couple of weeks ago, we attended the baptism of a couple from Hungary who we helped fellowship (a little bit).  What a difference it makes in our ability to assimilate new members when they come as families.  It has been enjoyable to watch their integration into the ward and the joy that they are feeling.  Edina (the wife) bore her testimony that all her life she has been searching for something “and now I have found it.”  At the other end of the spectrum we took another sister to church a couple of weeks ago and, right after the sacrament, she tipped over, laid down on the seat, and slept through the rest of the meeting. Kathy’s attempts to bring her back to consciousness were unavailing.  I thought I should take her to High Priest’s Quorum with me, where she would not feel lonely.

So, let’s get to the travels.

Dennis and Clareen Hays (friends from way back in law school) visited us.  We went again through the Cotswolds (very popular place for visitors) and the Lakes.  We stayed at a B&B where our room had giant beams about 5 feet off the floor so we had to hang towels over them to keep us alert.  I only forgot once (enough).

Our room in Bath.  Mind  your head!

Our room in Bath. Mind your head!

We visited Avebury (not far from Stonehenge) where there some pretty remarkable rock circles.  It is amazing that with our abilities to interpret the past, there is really not a consistent explanation for the rock circles; but there are a lot of them all over England.

Circle of rocks in Avebury

Circle of rocks in Avebury

Stonehenge

Stonehenge

Here in Chorley, there is a manor house that has been closed ever since we got here.  It is now open on weekends.  This room is really quite magnificent.  That is all wood relief on the ceiling and it is about three feet deep.  Hard to believe that much weight has been suspended for over 400 years.  It is believed that Oliver Cromwell spent a night or two here.

The subtle ceiling of a manor house here in Chorley.

The subtle ceiling of a manor house here in Chorley.

On the Saturday of general conference (the first session is at 5:00 pm here) we drove to the Peak District to see the Blue John Caverns.  We descended 300 feet (via 245 stairs).  They used to mine lead from the cavern, but now they mine blue john which is a fairly low grade gem stone (diamond is 10, blue john is 4); but it really looks quite nice in jewelry.  The area around Castleton attracts “ramblers” by the hundreds.  The hillsides and canyon rims are covered with these avid hikers.  They have many rambler clubs you can join depending on your location, age, experience, and adventurous spirit.  Of course, you need the proper gear–which is the best part of the experience.  Blokes join just to justify purchase of the gear–then stay home and watch rugby.

Another if the cavern

Another of the cavern

Blue John Cavern in Castleton (the "Peaks District).  The formation is called "Miners' snot

Blue John Cavern in Castleton (the “Peaks District). The formation is called “Miners’ snot”

Starting to see Fall

Starting to see Fall

On conference Sunday, we drove into Preston (we don’t do that much) and strolled through Avenham park by the River Ribble.  Some beautiful colors are beginning to emerge.

Tree that was planted by the Church in a Japanese garden at River Ribble where the first European baptisms were performed

Tree that was planted by the Church in a Japanese garden at River Ribble where the first European baptisms were performed

The trees by our apartment are not the kind that show a lot of brilliance; but they do let you know what time of year it is and warn you of what’s coming.

View out our front window

View out our front window

Kathy watching General Conference in our living room.

Kathy watching General Conference in our living room.  Yes, that is a heater behind her and another is at her feet.  You can take a girl out of San Diego, but….

Our jobs are going great and we do enjoy our visitors and excursions.  Our bishop and his wife will arrive tomorrow for a couple of days, then it looks like we will hop over to Amsterdam on business (wish it was spring for that trip).

31 October 2015

An eventful couple of weeks.  On 16 October, we travelled to Amsterdam where I met with a young man about a legal issue.  We arrived Friday night and returned Monday night.  Most of our day on Saturday was taken with my meeting in Amersfoort.  We then drove back to Amsterdam for a couple of days of exploring.  We were looking forward to attending church, but were evidently so tired that we slept too late and missed.  Also, as we discovered, Sunday was the annual Amsterdam Marathon—a very big event.  Most of the trolley lines were down and the taxi’s had to take very indirect routes (read expensive) to get where you wanted to go.  We wanted to visit the Rjkesmuseum. 

Rijksmuseum in Amsterdam

Rijksmuseum in Amsterdam

Can't pass up a try at wooden shoes

Can’t pass up a try at wooden shoes

We eventually got there; but in the process, I left my iPhone in the taxi.  Of course, I did not have a receipt, the name of the company or anything.  I thought my goose was cooked.  We had a rendezvous planned with Spencer and Allie Woolcott at 5:30; but were to call them to arrange a location.  I did not have his number.  So, we went back to the hotel (where I had my computer) and sent desperate emails to Warren, Linda, Tyler and Tanner (who had hooked up with Spencer a month ago).  We finally made the connection.  Spencer sent out an SMS message to my phone giving his number to whomever might find the phone.  An hour later, a call came from my phone to his.  With a lot of strangeness about a meeting place, we finally hooked up with a guy claiming to be from Liverpool and I retrieved the phone.  Relieved as I was, there was (and still is) a discomfort surrounding it.  Why did he call from my phone instead of his own? Did he have to break the passcode to do so?  Is my data protected (remembering most of my church emails are quite confidential).  And, when I opened photos, about 10 photos were taken of him and his friends, including one with him making an obscene gesture  at the camera.  What’s he up to?  But, the sole comforting thought is, “why did he return it?” In the end, I got the phone back and we had a very enjoyable meal with Spencer and Allie.

Vermeer

Vermeer (one of Kathy’s favorites)

On Monday, we spent the day at the Van Gogh Museum.  Remarkable!  This was the finishing touch on a commitment we made back in 1972 when there was a Van Gogh show in San Francisco (we were in law school at the time).  We agreed if we ever got the chance to see the museum in Amsterdam, we would do it…and we finally did. We were able to get nose to nose with his masterpieces and see those incredible brush strokes. I was impressed with how many self-portraits he did in the final couple of years of his life.  It is as though he knew the end was near and, as I was reminded, he took his own life not long after being released from a mental hospital he had checked into himself.

One of my favorites

One of my favorites

Upon return, I spent most of my week working with the many legal issues presented by the refugee crises in Europe and, in particular, with how the Church can help.  It is very difficult to provide any assistance in some countries that do not want the refugees to receive assistance…they want them gone and prohibit any sort of help that may enable them to extend their unwelcome stay.  Laws are changing by the day.  So every day, I review a report on all the new refugee updates.

We have mentioned before that the sister missionaries live just across the hall from our flat.  Their flat recently sold and the new owners intend to occupy it rather than rent it out…so the sisters needed to move.  A few months ago, when we heard this might happen, I told the mission office that if it made sense for the sisters to move into our place, we would look for another place to live.  Not that we are unhappy where we are, but it is difficult when we have company with only one bathroom.  A couple of weeks ago, the mission said it looked like that plan may need to be implemented and could we start looking for a house.  We did and, after some very disappointing viewings, finally found one that looked like it would work.  For the next several days, the mission could not give us an answer on timing.  But, on Thurs. morning, they called and asked that we be moved out on Friday morning.  I think they forgot we are not young missionaries.  We have an entire house full of furniture as well as our personal belongings. We were lucky that Kristie was able to find a mover that could react that quickly and at 11:00 AM on Friday, we met the owner at the house, picked up the keys, and moved in.  For the first day or two, we were really missing our apartment, but we are now settling in.  The house has three bedrooms (one is so small that it can only be used for utility purposes) and three bathrooms.  The kitchen is very nice and large but it is also the dining room.  We have a garage, but if I park the car in it I will have to spend the night because I cannot get out.  So, in cold weather, I will have to develop my ice scraping skills.  Here are some pictures.

New House

New House

Step-saver lounge (living room)

Step-saver lounge (living room)

New disco kitchen

New disco kitchen

We went a week without WIFI or Vonage, so we are starving for contact with family.  We should be able to hook up tonight–but it is Halloween.  We are not prepared so we have been handing out sugar-free Werthers.  We will probably get egged later.

Starting to get colder and wetter.  Took our first walk in the new hood–still some very beautiful sites.

Signing off for now.